Watch a video of Victor receiving the 21 Leaders for the 21st CenturyAward from Women's E-News, Spring 2006 -- the only male so honored for the year.


If you or someone you know is, or may be , a victim of abuse, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline:
1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or visit www.ndvh.org

Or go directly to NNEDV at www.nnedv.org

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Victor Rivers National Spokesperson for the National Network to End Domestic Violence

When Victor speaks about the issue of domestic violence, he tells the heartbreaking story of a twelve year old boy who went to his local police department seeking help. There the boy disrobed for the officers and showed them the cuts, bruises, welts and burns that covered his body, telling how his father had been doing this to him, his siblings and even worse to his mother. Though the officers were horrified to hear about incidents of domestic violence that were on the level of torture, they told the boy there was little they could do. It was, they said, a private family matter. The year was 1967 and the boy was Victor himself.

While much has changed in terms of awareness and programs to assist victims of domestic violence, it remains the most underreported crime in America, what is often called “the Quiet Crime”. For this reason, Victor has chosen to lend his voice and his story as a witness and survivor to the National Network to End Domestic Violence, an alliance of shelters and statewide advocacy groups around the country.


The NNEDV is one of the preeminent organizations lobbying Congress and developing public policy, including the Violence Against Women Act of 1994. NNEDV has been a frontrunner in obtaining increased federal support for shelters, services, and programs. Through its sister organization, the National Network to End Domestic Violence Fund, the network has spearheaded efforts to provide more direct support to local programs and coallitions through information, research, funding, and training.

As a national spokesperson for the NNEDV, Mr. Rivers hopes to raise awareness that domestic violence can not be treated simply as a woman’s issue; rather, he insists, it should be everyone’s issue. His ultimate survival and personal success convey the importance of intervention by others who helped him break the cycle of violence.

Victor travels around the country by invitation and to Washington on behalf of the NNEDV to meet and speak with policy makers and members of Congress. Speaking at high schools, colleges, organizational meetings, fund-raisers, and in the media, through P.S.A's and with an appearance in the award winning PBS documentary, "Breaking the Silence: Journeys of Hope". Victor Rivers tells his story from his heart—with power, poignancy and humor.